You’ve finally started noticing how similar you are to that bland wallpaper in your mom’s apartment. Whenever you’re out with friends and family, you can’t seem to compete with some men who seem to draw everyone else’s attention. And they don’t even have to try hard! I know the feeling.
For years, I’d faded so far into the background; I was resigned to watching and never being watched. We live in a world where your looks can get you the attention you need, and that is the painful but true reality. Fortunately, there are things you can do to shift the odds in your favor.
When I decided to change my circumstances, the changes were amazing and the results were instantaneous. I’ve prepared this article to help you change your situation for the better as well. This guide is simple, direct, and effective.
What Makes A Guy Handsome?
A handsome guy or a man is who is basically a nice-looking guy (most importantly has a nice face), has a generally good physical appearance, he is well proportioned, well-formed and generally attractive to women. However, this should NOT be confused with a charming guy. A handsome man can be or not be charming and vice versa. There is another guide where I explain the skills to become a charming man. In this post, we are going to see what exactly makes a man handsome and attracted to women.
GROOMING
1. Grooming Face Care
Admittedly, not many men know the right face care routine. From a young age, such norms were reserved for the girls, and men grow up believing it isn’t manly to take care of your face. The thought of walking into a store and walking up to the face care aisle is just something many men do not consider doing.
Fortunately, we live in modern times where such stereotypes are fading into the background – right in the back with the belief that men cannot cook! Now, many men understand the value of a great skincare routine. It can do so many wonders for you in terms of your social life (especially with the ladies).
Face care involves knowing the proper way to clean your face, the right products to do the cleaning, moisturizing, and fixing other problematic issues like dry or oily skin, wrinkles, toning, and eliminating acne. You can get professional assistance to find the best and affordable way to do it.
2. Skin
Like your face, you need to clean yourself the right way and get suitable skincare products for your skin type.
As men, most of us aren’t exactly inclined to shower frequently and moisturize all the time. Do you want to look attractive to others around you? Shower, look good, and smell good.
Like your face, you need to clean yourself the right way and get suitable skincare products for your skin type.
Don’t forget to tie your looks with our best scents for attracting women.
3. Hair
Unless you’re still in your youthful years where you don’t care how your hair looks, you know your hair is a part of what gives the first impression about you. Fortunately, many of us men understand this. The tough part comes when we struggle with picking the best look to go for and the products to take care of your hair.
Most of us go for a simple crop cut. It’s simple, and we don’t have to put much thought into it! However, you can walk into that stylish barbershop you always notice, discuss professional looks, and the best products and ways you can maintain the look you find fitting.
4. Teeth
Let’s face it, most of us don’t even consider visiting the dentist unless something bad happens to your teeth and the pain becomes unbearable. You want to look dashing, you’ll have to start taking more care of your teeth, and that involves a trip to the dentist for that needed transformation. You’ll also have to observe oral hygiene every day.
Physical Care
This one is pretty straightforward. The two best ways to improve your physical appearance are by eating right, practicing healthy habits, and working out.
A great diet doesn’t just support your skin and organs; it also works together with your workouts. Do you want to lose weight, improve your health, feel great and buff up? Exercise. You don’t have to go hardcore from the start.
Work smart, not hard – invest in a fitness trainer who can help you pick the best exercise routine for you.
5. Style
You don’t have to go broke trying to pick a look that makes you look good. A classic wardrobe (tees, jeans, shirts, boots, etc.) is enough. All you have to do is make sure they fit perfectly (nothing baggy, saggy, or too tight) and that they’re always clean and crease-free. For shoes, don’t look for anything too colorful or trendy. Keep it simple, classic, and manly. Finally, own your entire look – tilt that chins up, smile, and project confidence.
Final Word
You don’t need to be Idris Elba or George Clooney to look handsome. It’s all about building your self-esteem, and I can admit it took time and resources like the Supreme Self Confidence book to understand the value of believing in yourself. Believe it or not, anxiety and stress can make you look older and a little less attractive!